Where’s the Wisdom?

Hello. I haven’t post anything for a time. Along the time, I went to find the material and the thing that I got, is there’s no wisdom on human. It happened at my school.

It happened 2 days ago. My friends and I went to our school. That day’s schedule was to let us, as the students, to adapt the situation of the school. In the morning, it went smoothly, just like the days before, but when it reached afternoon, the situation changed. Our (my friends and I) class happened an ‘earthquake’. Our class was full of ‘noises’. Those ‘noises’ weren’t the noise that caused by the students in the class, but it is caused by the 2^nd and 3^rd grade students (My friends and I are 1^st grade). They shouted, oh no, it should be called, commanded. Yes, they commanded us to do what they pleased. It’s ok, if they commanded softly, but the fact was, they commanded us by shouting. They commanded us to sing, to imitate them, etc. All of the commands were to disgraceful my friends and I. After that, I asked one of the 2^nd and 3^rd grade students, ‘Have you ever been like this?’ He answered, ‘Yes I am.’

When he answered, ‘Yes I am,’ I really-really felt so angry. I thought, ‘Where’s your wisdom?’ If you have ever being shouted or commanded like that, you should have known the feeling. It is so unpleasant. I read a sentence and I like it very much; ‘If you know that being pinched is hurt, please don’t pinch another person, because that person will hurt too.’ See? If you known that it is unpleasant, why you still do it to the other person? Do you think that the other person won’t be hurt? Here’s where the wisdom is tested and absolutely, there’s no wisdom on those persons (2^nd and 3^rd grade students).

This post’s main purpose is to tell you, ‘Be a wise person!’ Don’t imitate those 2^nd and 3^rd grade students.

That’s all. Thank you.

How to be Unnervous on the Stage?

When we are told to talk something on the stage or in front of many people, we all will nervous, won't we? But if we are nervous, it can interrupt our talking or may be speech. We can't speak fluently, our pronounciation is bad, and we will also forget what should we say. These also happened on me, but, I found a way to solve the nervous.

The most important thing in talking in front of many people is our self-confidence, but it's hard to find the self-confidence. So, all the first thing we should do, of course, is find our self-confidence. But how? According to my experiences, we can find self-confidence by preparing the material of the talking or speech completely. Be sure that you can talk fluently when you talk about the talking or speech. I suggest that all of these, you practice them in your own home. (In your own room is better). You need concentration, so if you practice at your home, there will be not so many noises.

When you speak in front of the people or on the stage, you can also solve your nervous. Before you start talking, take a deep breath first. When you are talking, first, please don't see the audiences or people first. After you talk for a few minutes, you slowly see the audiences. Be sure you have the body language. By having the body language, it can solve your nervous. If you can't have a big body language, you just use the small one, just like when you want to stress a word or a sentence, just whip your hand for a while. Just like singing.

The another one, please don't take a deep breath when you are talking. It will increase your nervous. Keep your performance until the talking or speech is well performed. But, that's a fact. When the speech or talking coming to end, we won't feel too nervous, because we think that it will soon end. It's a good thing, but please still remember the speech. After the speech ends, don't forget to say 'thank you' to the audiences. After you down from the stage, take a deep breath again and your nervous will gone.

That's all my experiences to solve the nervous. Hope these can help you to solve your nervous. Just be self-confidence.